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Caveat Emperor
Lisa Schiffren, "The Corner" @ National Review
So much for the Emperor's VIP Club's high class goods. With her three diamond rating, "Kristen" aka "Ashley Youmans" aka "Ashley Alexandra Dupre" does not appear "highly educated," "accomplished," "sophisticated," or of "good family," as the online website claimed about it's high priced merchandise. Indeed, she is a pretty 22 year old woman with a nice body from a broken and perhaps abusive family in New Jersey. She didn't know her father. She dropped out of high school in 10th grade, ran away, and, in the course of living with various men, came to be interested in music. Now she wants to be a singer. How'd she get into high end prostitution the "escort" business, as both she and the New York Times call it? Well, the guy she was living with walked out, (because she was upset about various children he had fathered), and she couldn't pay the rent. She considered working in a friend's restaurant, or moving home, but.... hey, this came up.
It's time to put to rest the enduring myth of the high class hooker, with putative elegance and extraordinary erotic skills. Mr. Spitzer and his ilk may wish to kid themselves, by spending extra, but they are really just paying for an available body. For the most part, "highly educated women from good families" or even just moderately educated women from ordinary families have skills that allow them to support themselves in what used to be called "honest" ways. (Unskilled women with less education also mostly choose grubby honest minimum wage labor, of course.) I think The Sopranos had a far more realistic view of who most prostitutes and strippers are than a lot of the romantic nonsense I've read lately.
Ms. Youmans does not want people to think she is "a monster." Does anyone think that? I doubt it. She is a dumb kid, who appears to have had no parents to offer help or guidance in life. Her physical beauty has, perhaps, made her life worse than it might have been had she been willing to move out of the expensive apartment and work as a waitress or shopgirl. There are monsters in this story but they are the pimps (male and female, at Emperor) and the customers.
Further, on this point, the comments of a person claiming to be an "industry insider" writing at Pajamas Media:
None of these girls was coerced into selling her body for money. Most of them came from middle-class backgrounds, and many had been accepted to universities. But they dropped out as soon as they discovered that they could make $20-30,000 a month as an escort.
Then they got addicted to the money and the lifestyle. And then one day, usually between the ages of 25 and 28, once theyd developed that knowing, experienced look that clients instinctively disliked, they found that themselves in a classic bind: they were addicted to high living but could no longer pay for it; they had no marketable skills; and years of late nights and lazy days had left them with no self-discipline. What to do? The really smart ones pulled themselves together and, with the help of a sympathetic client, started some kind of a business. Others married rich, cynical, older men in a sort of paid-wife arrangement. Those were the most common stories. I did not inquire into the fate of the girls who sort of faded away. I did not want to hear about their loneliness and poverty.
So much for the "victimless crime" myth.
Posted by: Mike 2008-03-13 |
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